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Wife stunned to learn husband is female after months of sex


An Indonesian woman is shaken after learning her husband of 10 months is actually a woman – despite the fact that they ‘have had sex frequently’.

The 22-year-old wife – identified only as ‘NA’ – has now filed charges against her ex-husband for cheating.

“I’m still scared, I’m shaking when I go out,” the abandoned bride was quoted as saying in a report in local newspaper Tribun News.

According to the website, NA first met his wife – who went by the name Ahnaf Arrafif – on the dating app Tantan last year.

Arrafif claimed to be a New York-trained doctor, and the couple quickly hit it off via text.

The pair met in May 2021 after Arrafif traveled to NA’s hometown of Jambi. Arrafif proposed soon after and they married in July 2021.

A woman named Erayani Arrafif (pictured) has reportedly been charged with fraud in Indonesia after posing as a man and tricking another woman into marrying her. The couple were married for 10 months before the truth about Arrafif’s gender came to light.
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NA admitted to being intimate with her spouse during their marriage, saying she believed they had real sex.

However, she admitted that she was told to ‘not look directly at Arrafif’s genitals’ and that her ‘eyes were covered with a cloth’ whenever things got steamy.

NA also alleged that Arrafif only undressed with the lights off, when things were “in a blackout state”, Suara.com reports.

Wife stunned to learn husband is female after months of sex
The woman – who claimed to be a man named Ahnaf Arrafif – is pictured. She matched with NA on a dating app, before they met in May 2021. They got married two months later.
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Wife stunned to learn husband is female after months of sex
Arrafif allegedly forced NA to have sex with the lights off. The bride was also ordered to be blindfolded whenever the couple became intimate.
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While NA’s mother was reportedly charmed by Arrafif before the wedding, she quickly grew suspicious when it emerged he had no job.

Arrafif moved in with NA and his mother and soon began asking for money. Over the next few months, the ingesting NA mom became increasingly convinced that her “son-in-law” was a fraudster. She also began to doubt that Arrafif was a man and tried to obtain identification.

In April 2022, she finally confronted Arrafif and ordered him to strip. At that time, Arrafif allegedly admitted to being a woman who was actually called Erayani Arrafif.

Wife stunned to learn husband is female after months of sex
Arrafif is seen with their wife in a photo published by media in Indonesia. The case has received widespread attention in the region.
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NA and her mother contacted the police and Arrafif was reportedly charged with fraud.

The scammer admitted to the cops that they tricked NA into thinking she was having penetrative sex using her fingers.

It is currently unclear whether Arrafif faces a prison sentence if convicted of fraud. A hearing date has not yet been announced.

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