A professional mistress who exclusively dates married men has revealed the reasons why men are unfaithful and how to avoid being cheated on.
Amy Kupps, 33, from North Carolina, explained that she hears the same complaints from her lovers and thinks there are surefire ways to avoid extramarital affairs.
The ex-teacher turned OnlyFans content creator recommends bringing more excitement to the bedroom, whether it’s watching X-rated videos with your partner or getting a boob job in order to meet their desires on your appearance.
“Your partner is guaranteed to stay if you fulfill their sexual fantasies,” Amy said.
Amy Kupps, 33 (pictured) from North Carolina, who exclusively dates married men, shared her tips for avoiding infidelity
Amy (pictured) said pleasuring your partner often and bringing excitement to the bedroom can reduce the risk of them being unfaithful
Amy said men like confident women, so show some butt and cleavage in public because he’ll probably run away from a plain conservative Jane
“Pleasing your partner frequently and often is key.
“You have to watch porn together, be open to some boob work, change your hair color, and wear something you don’t normally wear.
“Be sexy in public – a man likes confidence, so show some butt and cleavage.” If you’re just a conservative Jane, he’ll probably show up.
“You have to role play, dress up, have sex in the back of a church or [at a] concert.
“Be risky and exciting and never be afraid to show your affection publicly.
‘Learn his fantasies and you will keep him forever.
“Men watch porn for a reason. Being a bit like his own pornstar will ensure he doesn’t leak.
Amy advises women to try role-playing with costumes, while having sex at a concert or in the back of a church
Amy said it was important to have public displays of affection, take risks and be exciting
Amy said being a man’s personal pornstar and learning his fantasies would keep him from running
Amy, who has amassed 85,000 Instagram followers by posting sexy content under the handle @amy.kupps93, also recommends sharing phone passwords and communicating openly when it comes to finances.
When it comes to the men she serves, she says there is a list of common complaints they share about their partners.
Amy said: ‘I often hear, ‘My wife doesn’t have sex with me anymore’, ‘I love my kids but they ruined my intimacy’, ‘My wife is boring and has no time for me” and “My wife has no sex appeal, is not adventurous and is not risky”.
“Men always trust me and 100% of the time it’s one of those reasons.
Amy said sharing passwords and open communication about finances can also be good for relationships.
Amy said she hears the same complaints from the men she serves, including that their wives have no sex appeal and that having children has ruined intimacy
Amy said men are driven to cheat if there’s a lack of communication or excitement in the bedroom
“The worst offenses in a relationship that cause a partner to cheat are lack of communication, excitement, and bedroom fun.
“Not having sex at all is a deciding factor.
“Partners who don’t communicate their sexual fantasies often feel isolated when they should be included if possible.
“You should always make time for each other no matter how busy your life gets and don’t be afraid to go crazy in the bedroom or even invite a third member over to spice things up.”
Amy said it’s important for couples to make time for each other and not be afraid to bring in a third member to spice things up.
Amy said she felt ‘terrible’ after her husband cheated on her with a younger woman, but didn’t blame herself
Despite her job, Amy has been cheated on in the past.
She said: “My husband cheated on me with a much younger woman. A few of my friends have spotted it several times.
“For a while I felt bad but realized I didn’t need him. I didn’t blame myself, but I should have left earlier.
“I started OnlyFans to spice up our sex lives. It turned him on but he got jealous very quickly.
“If a boyfriend or husband cheated on me again, I didn’t care.
Amy said she started OnlyFans to spice up her relationship, but her husband quickly got jealous
Amy said she wouldn’t care if a future partner cheated because she’s ‘confident, sexy and adventurous’
Amy said she exercised, ate a low carb diet and had cosmetic surgery to give herself a confident boost while improving flaws
Amy said being able to step out of your comfort zone, communication and self-confidence will result in a happy marriage
“I am confident, sexy and adventurous. I’m a man’s kind of woman – I like beer and chicken wings, and I’m not afraid to get dirty.
“I train hard and stay on top of my maintenance – following a low carb diet, exercising with weights, jogging and yoga, and of course cosmetic surgery here and there to improve faults and give a boost of confidence.
“I’m so confident after my first marriage – nothing can bring me down.
“Self-confidence, the ability to step out of your comfort zone sexually, and communication will result in a happy, healthy marriage — and maybe some porn, too.”