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I have sex on the first date to eliminate the awkward part


“You miss 100% of the ‘lays’ you never take.”

These wise words of wisdom come from an OnlyFans model who has one major dating rule: always have sex on the first date.

The social media influencer, who goes by the name Kazumi, likes to do the deed at the start of a potential relationship to “take out the awkward part.”

The 25-year-old told NeedToKnow.online that many men love her “direct” approach to dating.

The adult content creator – who claims to earn $250,000 a month – has revealed her strict Christian upbringing has inspired her to be more sex-positive in her everyday life.

Although she was “pretty nerdy” when she was younger, she “desperately wanted to fuck”, but her parents would not allow her to go on dates. And while Kazumi wanted to find a boyfriend, she felt she was too socially awkward as a teenager – and the boys at her school thought she was “weird”.

“If he doesn’t respect you after sex, he probably didn’t respect you before either,” Kazumi said.
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I have sex on the first date to eliminate the awkward part
Kazumi lives a sex-positive life as a way to rebel against her strict Christian childhood.
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“I turned to the internet and chatted with strangers online via webcam, which is probably why I’m so comfortable sexting guys on OnlyFans,” she told the outlet. sale.

The Miami resident stays safe, uses protection and gets tested regularly to keep herself and her partners safe on her dates.

She noted that some of the “most amazing first dates” she’s ever had were when she had sex and then had a more comfortable experience with the guy afterwards because, as she stated , “We are both relaxed and the sexual tension is airing”.

I have sex on the first date to eliminate the awkward part
The OnlyFans model is also a visitor to orgies and sex clubs.
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I have sex on the first date to eliminate the awkward part
“I feel like I had sex with people multiple times before I went on a real date,” she said.
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“I want to remove the stigma of having a high number of sexual partners,” Kazumi continued. “Like, who cares?”

She said men appreciate her “candor because they find a lot of women aren’t very direct or confident about their sexuality.”

However, Kazumi pointed out that some dates are surprised at first, with a few thinking she’s “a bitch – which is hypocritical,” she said.

“I’m dating mature men, and I feel like being honest, as well as direct about my needs, is a great way to establish the notion that I’m confident,” she added. “I know what I want at the beginning of the relationship and if I detect stupidity, we don’t date.”

The Instagram model – who doesn’t like to have a meal before having sex because it makes her feel ’embarrassed and tired’ – also doesn’t worry about the size of a man’s genitals or of his wealth status, caring only that they are pleasant and fun to be around.

Meanwhile, she doesn’t care what people think about her and advocates for other women to embrace their sexuality.

Kazumi also frequents sex clubs and orgies from time to time and enjoys enjoying her sexual escapades.

I have sex on the first date to eliminate the awkward part
“I want to remove the stigma of having a high number of sexual partners,” Kazumi said. “Like, who cares?”
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I have sex on the first date to eliminate the awkward part
“You miss 100% of the ‘diapers’ you never take,” she said.
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She has a few conversations with her men before meeting them, but Kazumi suggested that explaining the purpose of their date can help both people feel more comfortable.

“I personally talk to people a bit before I meet because I’ve already established an interest, as well as why I like them,” Kazumi disclosed. “If I didn’t, I wouldn’t move forward and meet them. not, and I feel like after sex people act more like themselves.

“I feel like I had sex with people multiple times before going on a real date,” she added. “If he doesn’t respect you after sex, he probably didn’t respect you before either.”



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