Natasha Lyonne, a ram.
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Venus and Uranus could make surprises welcome to your life today. If you have been stuck on a problem, leaving the beaten track could lead to an unconventional solution; If you are bored in your social life, you may meet new people who make your life feel big and exciting again. If you try to continue doing things in the same way you still have, you will not notice much progress, but if you are ready to try something new, you will be surprised by the path.
At a certain level, you understand that everything is possible and that life does not do so to have To be as it is now – the future is not in stone, and everything is possible. Often, however, this kind of thought does not seem abstract, nothing more than a flatness you can use to reassure yourself when you feel depressed. But today, a significant change – or the opening for this – will finally enter your life. Unexpected opportunities are up to you, and it’s up to you to decide what is going on.
Sometimes you hesitate to try new things – even when you wish – because you worry about what your friends will think. The expectations of others weigh heavily and it can be stressful to go against the grain. But today do your best to put it out of your mind; You are allowed to experiment with different lifestyles. The more you feel bored or limited lately, the more important it is to stretch your wings and try something different.
You worry, sometimes, when your feelings and reactions do not align with those of your friends – when you are able to stay calm while everyone loses your head, for example, or when you wave about things your friends insist are not serious. You are wondering if you treat in a way “wrongly” or if everyone knows something you are not doing. But today, try not to waste energy to worry about others. It is better to be honest and authentic – even if no one else seems to get it.
While some people seem to share all the random ideas that appear to them, you tend to be more circumspect. You will only share your opinion once you have given careful examination. Today, however, if you feel the desire to speak, honor it. You don’t always need to carefully plan what you are going to say, and you don’t need to be an expert on a subject before you have reflections on this subject. Continue to listen to others – especially if they are better informed than you – but give yourself the permission to speak too.
You know that the world is unpredictable – but even if you can’t do anything to change this, you can at least try not to create an additional upheaval. You do your best to make good decisions and communicate them clearly, to be reliable. But you are only human, and like everyone else, you need space to be confused, make mistakes and grow up. If you have trouble projecting stability and strength, cut yourself a little soft. Sometimes the final resolution of a problem requires some false starts.
It is easy to forget that people can change, because it seems so rare that they TO DO. According to your experience, at least, other people seem to be resistant to growth, no matter how much they would benefit. But remember that in spite of how it seems improbable, when you give people space and support to grow, they will generally take you. Do not be too sure of knowing that others are capable of – today, in particular, they could exceed your expectations.
You understand that all your efforts and relationships will have their ups and downs – and there is no way to pre -empt and prevent the stockings. Even the people you like the most will disappoint you on occasion, and you try to understand when it happens. But you always have your limits, and today your challenge is to decide where you will draw the line. Others may have perfectly good excuses for their bad behavior, but that does not mean that you are forced to endure it. Do not be afraid to move away if you decide that you have enough.
As far as possible, you avoid leaving someone else to see your weaknesses. The less your vulnerabilities that people see, the more you feel safe. But it is possible that, rather than protecting you, this state of mind is only isolated from you to isolate yourself. No matter how much you care about others, or how much you are a listener, real intimacy requires vulnerability both sides. Your occasional knowledge may not need to know your deepest feelings, but when it comes to friends you really trust, try to open today.
Sometimes routines serve as a useful railing in your life, giving your day structure so that you don’t waste time on frivolous distractions. But today, you may find it difficult to stick to the plan – perhaps because of factors out of your control, but more probably because you feel agitated and hemmed. Go slowly: no one can stay on time all Time. If you feel constrained, put aside all the “rules” you have established for yourself and simply take the day as it comes.
You know that the best most lasting way to go ahead is to take a step at a time – but sometimes it seems too slow. You are starting to ask yourself if you would not have a better success if you were advancing things if you took greater risks and you were growing. Today you will probably not be able to force Your life to move to a faster clip – but you could have an unexpected opportunity to make a jump, and if that happens, you might as well go there.
As much as you would like to believe that people act in good faith, you know from experience that it is not always true – and therefore you are always looked at for the means of twisting your words and of misinterpreting your actions. It is difficult not to be defensive when you suspect that others judge you. Today, however, try to assume correct intentions instead of constantly fear the worst of everyone. If you act as if you had nothing to prove, you could possibly believe it.
In general, you hesitate to really go perfectly – you worry about burning all your energy, or you will overestimate your capacity and that you will end up causing trouble. It is an approach with tact, but if you Never Get out at the point of failure, you will never learn how much you are able. Today, it could be worth growing a little stronger than you would usually – not for the great results, but simply for the joy of using your capacities to the maximum.
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