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Alarming traits mean the woman should end the marriage

Dear Amy: My husband of just under two years does things behind my back that he knows would hurt me.

While we were dating, we promised each other exclusivity.

I was loyal to him, and he continued to date about 30 women for a year and a half. I came across his “grading” spreadsheet after we were living together.

He recently made arrangements to meet his ex-spouse while I was safely at work.

I feed birds, squirrels and chipmunks in our garden and love watching them. While I was away from home he took an air rifle and within a few months killed all the chipmunks.

One day last week I was coming home from work and saw him running around the front yard with the air rifle, shooting a little rabbit. I scolded him because he could hit a child riding a bike or a mother walking with her baby.

We’ve done counseling before. He only participates until he gets bored.

He told me he was going to do what he wanted to do, and he doesn’t care how I feel about it.

Please help.

– Woman at the end of her tether

Dear end: My intention is not to alarm you, but you have asked for help, and I want to make sure that you have a clear idea of ​​my opinion regarding the future of your marriage.


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